![]() ![]() I was horrified, and his comments set off a cascade of memories seen in a new and ugly light. I finally called him on it, and he told me he had been "pushing my buttons" on purpose and "testing me." I assist with his online teaching and reviews, and he has been putting me on the spot in uncomfortable ways. He once gave me a goodbye kiss on the neck, which startled me all I could say was how much I love him and his wife AS A COUPLE. The problem is that things have been uncomfortable for several months now. He and I are close, but not romantically. ![]() My late husband and I took an extended course from this man, and we are now working together on an online training program. View CommentsÄEAR MISS MANNERS: I've been studying with a teacher, a married man, to learn about intuition and other skills for a few years. Wedding couples should take the note: If you are going to expand your guest list to people with whom you are not in regular contact, at least provide some helpful and telling leads. Miss Manners can only suggest that you look up the address for more clues (or at least a last name), decline the invitation or resign yourselves to blindly attending a mystery event. GENTLE READER: No doubt these are the children of work acquaintances, or of high school friends. Should we contact the couple via mail to ask who they are? We are wondering for whom we should be saving this date. It did have a return address, which we did not recognize, either. This card also had only their first names and photos, and we still did not recognize them. Now we have received another notification, postponing the date for another year, presumably because of COVID. We put the date on our calendar, expecting to hear more later. Neither my wife nor I recognized the names or the photograph. DEAR MISS MANNERS: About a year ago, we received a "save the date" from a couple identified only as "Max and Jenny," with their photo and the date of their planned wedding. ![]()
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